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Chloe Bailey Reflects On Judgement Around Her Embracing Sexuality: ‘It Was Killing Me, To Be Honest’

<p>As <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;listicle&sol;chloe-bailey-damson-idris-swarm-scene-reactions&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener"><strong>Chloe Bailey<&sol;strong><&sol;a> gears up to release her debut solo album&comma; she&&num;8217&semi;s taking a moment to acknowledge all the backlash she&&num;8217&semi;s received for embracing her sexuality in the public eye&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">Her Initial Self-Doubts Came From Venturing Out On Her Own<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>The &&num;8220&semi;In Pieces&&num;8221&semi; singer dished on the matter during a new interview with <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;people&period;com&sol;music&sol;chloe-bailey-says-too-sexy-criticism-was-killing-her-inside-interview-new-album-in-pieces&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">PEOPLE<&sol;a>&comma; and she started by looking back at when she dropped her debut solo single&comma; &&num;8220&semi;Have Mercy&comma;&&num;8221&semi; back in September 2021&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Regarding this experience of branching off from Chloe x Halle&comma; Chloe shared that both she and Halle Bailey &&num;8220&semi;didn&&num;8217&semi;t really know who &lbrack;they&rsqb; were individually without the other&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As a result&comma; she faced &&num;8220&semi;a moment of self-doubt&&num;8221&semi; about whether she could make it on her own&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;We both didn&&num;8217&semi;t really know who we were individually without the other&comma; and that&&num;8217&semi;s what was really scary for me&period; It was a moment of self-doubt where I was like&comma; &&num;8216&semi;Can I do this without my sister&quest;'&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p><amp-instagram data-shortcode&equals;"CkEDsJvJd6w" layout&equals;"responsive" width&equals;"600" height&equals;"600" data-captioned><&sol;amp-instagram><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In spite of her doubts&comma; Chloe had the opportunity to perform &&num;8220&semi;Have Mercy&&num;8221&semi; at the 2021 MTV VMAs&comma; where she infamously licked her mic&comma; as <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;chloe-bailey-says-licking-the-mic-during-her-vmas-performance-wasnt-planned&sol;&quest;&lowbar;gl&equals;1&ast;gf8fg1&ast;&lowbar;up&ast;MQ&period;&period;&ast;&lowbar;ga&ast;MTg4MTI4OTA5Ny4xNjgwMTE4MTg3&ast;&lowbar;ga&lowbar;V2HX8YP3XL&ast;MTY4MDExODE4Ni4xLjEuMTY4MDExODE5Mi4wLjAuMA&period;&period;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">The Shade Room<&sol;a> previously reported&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>This display garnered some backlash regarding Chloe being &&num;8220&semi;too sexy&&num;8221&semi; with her performances&period; Other instances like her sharing a video of her licking a <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;chloe-bailey-addresses-deleted-lollipop-licking-video-im-finding-myself-right-now-figuring-out-what-serves-me-best&sol;&quest;&lowbar;gl&equals;1&ast;kzbntw&ast;&lowbar;up&ast;MQ&period;&period;&ast;&lowbar;ga&ast;ODM4MjIwMjM1LjE2ODAxMTgwMzg&period;&ast;&lowbar;ga&lowbar;V2HX8YP3XL&ast;MTY4MDExODAzNy4xLjEuMTY4MDExODA0Ny4wLjAuMA&period;&period;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">lollipop<&sol;a> added further fuel to the fire as well&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h5 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">RELATED&colon; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;listicle&sol;chloe-bailey-damson-idris-swarm-scene-reactions&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">&&num;8216&semi;Not Even 5 Minutes In&&num;8217&semi;&colon; Social Media Reacts To Chloe Bailey And Damson Idris&&num;8217&semi; Steamy &&num;8216&semi;Swarm&&num;8217&semi; Scene<&sol;a><&sol;h5>&NewLine;<p>While she played it off and kept on confidently doing her thang&comma; Chloe opened up about some of the behind-the-scenes hardships the experience put her through&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">Chloe Bailey Says She &&num;8216&semi;Never Understood&&num;8217&semi; Why She&&num;8217&semi;d Be &&num;8216&semi;Ridiculed To The Max&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Regarding the impact of the criticism&comma; Chloe shared&comma; &&num;8220&semi;Deep inside&comma; it was killing me&comma; to be honest&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>She also expressed confusion at why she was &&num;8220&semi;ridiculed to the max&&num;8221&semi; while some of her peers were let off scot-free&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;I never understood it&period; I&&num;8217&semi;d look at my peers and be like&comma; &&num;8216&semi;We&&num;8217&semi;re all the same age&period; They&&num;8217&semi;re showing as much as me&comma; if not more&period; But if I do it&comma; I&&num;8217&semi;m ridiculed to the max&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>The 24-year-old songstress went on to note that&comma; in an attempt to block out the haters&comma; she took a brief break from Twitter&comma; as she was &&num;8220&semi;starting to believe the lies that the trolls were saying&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;As much as I would see it and try to act like it didn&&num;8217&semi;t affect or bother me&comma; it would&period; I was starting to believe the lies that the trolls were saying online&comma; and I started to look down on myself even more than what I already was doing with my own insecurities&period; Once I ignored it&comma; I&&num;8217&semi;ve been good&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>Now&comma; as Chloe reflects on the matter&comma; she says that she&&num;8217&semi;s confident in herself and knows that the stage is where she can &&num;8220&semi;flourish&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">What do you think about Chloe Bailey&&num;8217&semi;s commentary&comma; as well as the criticism she faced for being &&num;8220&semi;too sexy&&num;8221&semi;&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine; <div class&equals;"wpra-reactions-wrap wpra-plugin-container" style&equals;"justify-content&colon; center&semi;&semi;"> <div class&equals;"wpra-reactions-container" data-ver&equals;"1&period;3&period;10" data-post&lowbar;id&equals;"117683" data-show&lowbar;count&equals;"true" data-enable&lowbar;share&equals;"onclick" data-behavior&equals;"regular" data-animation&equals;"true" data-share&lowbar;url&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;chloe-bailey-sexuality&sol;" data-secure&equals;"6042cd2d6f"> <div class&equals;"wpra-call-to-action" style&equals;"color&colon; 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