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<p><a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/oop-jim-jones-says-stop-worrying-about-when-hes-getting-married-to-chrissy-lampkin-why-you-worried-about-me-getting-married-video/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Chrissy Lampkin</a>, the longtime girlfriend of <a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/juelz-santana-says-17-month-jail-sentence-was-a-learning-experience-i-got-to-turn-jail-into-yale/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Diplomats</a> member <a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/jim-jones-claims-hes-soley-responsible-for-kid-cudis-career/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Jim Jones</a>, has abandoned her dreams of walking down the aisle with the rapper.</p>
<p>In a clip circulating on social media, the couple appears to be vacationing on a boat when the Bronx-born, Harlem-bred rapper poses a question to Lampkin about a future wedding and he&#8217;s stunned by her reaction.</p>
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<blockquote><p>You don&#8217;t want to get married to me?</p></blockquote>
<p>&#8220;No,&#8221; Lampkin straightforwardly replies.</p>
<blockquote><p>For real, I can’t make you want to get married. I can only ask you [and] tell you that’s what I wanna do.</p></blockquote>
<p>Lampkin goes on to explain how Jones seems to require certain things of her but remains &#8220;mean,&#8221; &#8220;cold,&#8221; and &#8220;distant&#8221; in return,</p>
<blockquote><p>You want me to be this loving, sexual, crazy, cook, this, that and the other. But you come home and you’re mean and you’re cold and you’re distant.</p></blockquote>
<p>As their talk on the water progressed, Jones acknowledged that he puts Lampkin &#8220;through a lot,&#8221; noting that he&#8217;s always focusing on business and sometimes neglecting the well-being of his personal relationships.</p>
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<blockquote><p>I always been a man of my family, so all I know how to do is try to support and try to make money. I don’t want you thinking I’m selfish in any way, because I love you more than I could love anything in this world… It’s been a long road.</p></blockquote>
<p>Chrissy agrees, but firmly tells Jones that &#8220;at some point, it has to stop.&#8221;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">The Couple&#8217;s Conversation Gets Heated</h3>
<p>&#8220;Where would you want to get married at?&#8221; Jones asks Lampkin.</p>
<p>&#8220;What?&#8221; she confusedly replies. &#8220;What are you talking about right now — where would I want to get married at? We haven&#8217;t even like — you just skipped like 12 steps.&#8221;</p>
<p>Lampkin proceeds to explain her confusion.</p>
<blockquote><p>You went from talking about how you want to do better and this, that, and the other to — no, &#8216;I promise I&#8217;m going to work on it&#8217; — you went to where I want to get married?</p></blockquote>
<p>Lampkin goes on to say she feels like Jones is throwing himself a &#8220;pity party.&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p>Because you talking about you&#8217;re sorry about what you put me through, but have you really talked about the steps that it’s going to take for us to do better? You’re promising me s**t and you’re talking about it — I asked you to show me.</p></blockquote>
<p>She also goes on to say that Jones is &#8220;all over the place with his emotions.&#8221; And &#8220;not once&#8221; has he made her feel like his decision to get married was &#8220;solidified.&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p>And then you go from telling me how you feel, to not asking how I feel&#8230; It just felt crazy to hear you go from that to &#8216;Where would you like to get married?&#8217; You didn&#8217;t ask me if I still <em>wanted</em> to get married.</p></blockquote>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Jones Questions Whether Lampkin Would Rather Marry Someone Else</h3>
<p>At this point, the conversation seems to go all the way left for the couple.</p>
<blockquote><p>Is there somebody out there that you think you would like to be married to — whoever this person is? Because obviously, it doesn&#8217;t seem like me — it doesn&#8217;t feel like it&#8217;s me.</p></blockquote>
<p>Jones then resorts to saying that maybe he&#8217;s just a &#8220;f*****d up person&#8221; who doesn&#8217;t &#8220;know how to love.&#8221;</p>
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<p>The clip shared on social media appears to be a part of an early look at <span data-preserver-spaces="true">VH1’s </span><a class="editor-rtfLink" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/ClUH2J6Ph7y/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span data-preserver-spaces="true"><em>Family Reunion: Love &; Hip Hop Edition</em> season three</span></a>, scheduled to air<span data-preserver-spaces="true"> Mondays at 8 p.m. EST.</span></p>
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