ATLANTA, GEORGIA - MARCH 07: Derrick Jaxn speaks onstage during the 2020 Essence Magazine Wellness House at W Hotel Midtown on March 07, 2020 in Atlanta, Georgia. (Photo by Paras Griffin/Getty Images)
<p>After <strong>Derrick Jaxn </strong>announced <a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/relationship-coach-derrick-jaxn-announces-divorce-from-danaia-less-than-two-years-after-cheating-scandal/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">their divorce</a> in December, <strong>Da&#8217;Naia Jackson </strong>leaned further into God. So that&#8217;s the message Da&#8217;Naia delivered to her 91,000 Instagram followers this week.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;When the man you love &; have kids with destroys your soul with reckless decision-making, you must CHOOSE be alone with God. When your heart has been shattered &; reshaped into something that doesn&#8217;t quite feel normal inside your chest, with mental, emotional &; soul pain that is unbearable, there is only ONE MAN who can fix it &; that is the Holy Spirit,&#8221; Da&#8217;Naia wrote.</p></blockquote>
<p>She shared a video and a paragraphs-long caption on Instagram praising the Lord and her Bible. Da&#8217;Naia also seemingly hinted that Derrick <em><strong>&#8220;crushed [her] spirit due to his unconscious [eggplant emoticon].&#8221; </strong></em>In the clip, there&#8217;s a moment when Da&#8217;Naia throws a large wedding photo to the ground and sheds tears while sliding down a wall.</p>
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<p>Less than two weeks before Christmas, relationship coach Derrick announced his return to the single streets. At the time, he said the decision to split was mutual after <em>&#8220;much prayer, counseling, and deep consideration.&#8221; </em>He shared his gratitude for the years spent with Da&#8217;Naia, calling her<em> &#8220;an amazing person.&#8221; </em></p>
<p><em>SWIPE BELOW TO SEE DERRICK&#8217;S FULL STATEMENT </em></p>
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<p>His separation statement came shortly after blogger Tasha K <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CmC4is0Abx4/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link" target="_blank" rel="noopener">exposed footage</a> of him in Miami with another woman. Their marriage ended less than two years after Derrick admitted to cheating on Jackson in a filmed confession with Da&#8217;Naia at his side. At the time, he said his indiscretions included <em>&#8220;sex, sexual flirtation and meeting up&#8221;</em> with other women.</p>
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<p>The mother has faced online ridicule for her appearance during the March 2021 confession, word choice, like <a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/derrick-jaxns-wife-addresses-comments-about-her-appearance-you-see-a-bonnet-i-see-the-helmet-of-salvation-video/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">&#8220;bonnet of salvation&#8221;</a> in follow-up videos, and use of religion to condemn others.</p>
<p>In November, a few weeks before Derrick announced their divorce, Da&#8217;Naia seemingly wished death (and more) on people speaking ill of them. The shocking video made its rounds again in December after the divorce news. People expressed confusion at Da&#8217;Naia&#8217;s passionate ill wishes, given that Derrick mentioned they&#8217;d decided on separating &#8220;earlier&#8221; in 2022&#8211;though he gave no exact date.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Da&#8217;Naia Jackson Seemingly Suggests She Idolized Derrick Jaxn</strong></h3>
<p>In her lengthy caption testimony, <a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/derrick-jaxns-wife-danaia-jackson-speaks-on-her-decision-to-stick-beside-him-as-he-addressed-his-past-cheating/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Da&#8217;Naia spoke</a> about feeling like she doesn&#8217;t know <em>&#8220;how to live without that man&#8221;</em> while also being angry with him. She added that she <em>&#8220;made an idol&#8221;</em> of Derrick&#8211;a disservice to God in her eyes.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;If you have heard, &#8216;God hates divorce,&#8217; &; using that for strength to &#8216;work it out&#8217; with a man who consciously &#8216;chooses.&#8217; You have made an idol of that man, you are people-pleasing &; you&#8217;re out of order in the sight of God. Married or not. And this requires repentance and renunciation,&#8221; she wrote. &#8220;One thing God &#8220;hates&#8221; more than divorce is a woman with a destroyed soul idolizing a man who does not have the power to destroy her soul and body in hell fire (Matt 10:28).&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Da&#8217;Naia also spoke about healing being a &#8220;two-way street&#8221; that requires exchanging pain and hurt for God&#8217;s healing. She seemingly suggested therapy doesn&#8217;t measure up to God&#8217;s work.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve learned that He is made strong in my weakness &; it takes him a nanosecond to heal what natural world therapy would take years to &#8216;manage&#8217; with side effects known as &#8216;triggers.&#8217; When God comes to heal, he heals completely, there are no side effects &; &#8216;triggers&#8217; are disarmed and powerless by His Power.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Da&#8217;Naia added:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;My secret to surviving public mockery, scrutiny, scandal, betrayal, and dishonor is surrendering to the Lord.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>This isn&#8217;t the first time the former wife has spoken about her healing and relationship with God. She&#8217;s shared several posts on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/duh_nay_uh_jackson/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noopener">her Instagram page</a> on the topic.</p>
<p><em>SEE HER FULL POST BELOW</em></p>
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<p>Meanwhile, Derrick hasn&#8217;t responded to Da&#8217;Naia&#8217;s religiously-centered music video and caption testimony. Since announcing the divorce, which is still available on his Instagram page, Derrick has continued to share relationship advice with over one million followers.</p>
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