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Eboni K. Williams Defends Comments About Black Men & Mediocrity: ‘Somebody Has To Start Telling The Truth’

<p><strong><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;listicle&sol;eboni-k-williams-doubles-down-on-refusing-to-date-a-bus-driver-average-will-never-be-good-enough&sol;">Eboni K&period; Williams<&sol;a> <&sol;strong>has a crystal-clear message for people critiquing her recent commentary about &&num;8220&semi;the bigotry of low expectations&&num;8221&semi; amongst Black men&colon; &&num;8220&semi;I said what I said&excl;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h5 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">RELATED&colon; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;listicle&sol;eboni-k-williams-doubles-down-on-refusing-to-date-a-bus-driver-average-will-never-be-good-enough&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Eboni K&period; Williams Doubles Down On Refusing To Date A Bus Driver&colon; &&num;8216&semi;Average Will Never Be Good Enough&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;a><&sol;h5>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">Williams Doesn&&num;8217&semi;t Back Down&colon; &&num;8216&semi;Our Culture NEEDS This Conversation&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>On Thursday&comma; the commentator and <em>Real Housewives of New York City <&sol;em>alum appeared on <em><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;youtube&period;com&sol;watch&quest;v&equals;s78AjK-IBEU" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">The Breakfast Club<&sol;a> <&sol;em>to address the situation&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>After explaining her commentary and engaging in a back-and-forth with <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;listicle&sol;dj-envy-explains-didnt-want-work-charlamagne-tha-god&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener"><strong>DJ Envy<&sol;strong><&sol;a> about the impact of her statements&comma; Williams dished on how she prioritizes facts over feelings&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;More than I care about hurt feelings&comma; I care about providing my people with facts and information that say that the current way of life for the majority of Black Americans is not serving us&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>After reiterating that she&&num;8217&semi;s &&num;8220&semi;going off of the data and the facts&comma;&&num;8221&semi; she spoke on &&num;8220&semi;the current positioning of Black America&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;If y&&num;8217&semi;all are okay with the current positioning of Black America&comma; that we &lbrack;have&rsqb; the lowest income&comma; the lowest home ownership&comma; the lowest-educated group&comma; then so be it&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>She added&comma; <strong><em>&&num;8220&semi;I&&num;8217&semi;m not okay with it&comma; so that is why I said what I said about addressing the bigotry of low expectations&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;em><&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Williams proclaimed that&comma; while she understands people&&num;8217&semi;s anger&comma; &&num;8220&semi;somebody has got to start telling the truth&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;I am naming it&&num;8230&semi;I&&num;8217&semi;m acknowledging the pain&comma; but somebody has got to start telling the truth to our people&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p><amp-instagram data-shortcode&equals;"Cr1BGn-Loaw" layout&equals;"responsive" width&equals;"600" height&equals;"600" data-captioned><&sol;amp-instagram><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>After this interview&comma; Williams kept the conversation going on <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;instagram&period;com&sol;ebonikwilliams&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Instagram<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Beneath an upload&comma; Williams acknowledged that — regardless of people&&num;8217&semi;s stances — she knows &&num;8220&semi;our culture NEEDS this conversation&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;Baby&comma; what I know for sure is that our culture NEEDS this conversation&period;&ic; No matter your position or how this convo makes you feel we have GOT to reckon with the strata of these issues within the Black community now…or deal with consequences later&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>She wrapped up by adding&comma; &&num;8220&semi;Please keep the convo going in the comments&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><amp-instagram data-shortcode&equals;"Cr0&lowbar;BIBOxTT" layout&equals;"responsive" width&equals;"600" height&equals;"600" data-captioned><&sol;amp-instagram><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">Here&&num;8217&semi;s The Rundown On The Eboni K&period; Williams Discussion<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>The conversation initially started during a sit-down between Williams and <strong><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;in-case-you-missed-iyanla-vanzants-special-with-karrueche-full-episode-inside&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Iyanla Vanzant<&sol;a> <&sol;strong>on <em><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;youtube&period;com&sol;watch&quest;v&equals;75WuiwT9zts" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">TheGrio<&sol;a><&sol;em>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>After Williams mentioned how successful Black women can feel as though available men are &&num;8220&semi;not earning&&num;8221&semi; or &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;showing up in the leadership&&num;8221&semi; enough&comma; Vanzant asked if she would &&num;8220&semi;date a bus driver&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In turn&comma; Williams proclaimed that she would only do so &&num;8220&semi;if he owns the bus&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Upon receiving some online backlash over her statements&comma; Williams tapped in and clarified that — rather than putting down working-class people — she&&num;8217&semi;s actually &&num;8220&semi;pouring into the ascension of Black men&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;I am actually speaking and pouring into the ascension of Black men when I said what I said&period; But no&comma; some of y&&num;8217&semi;all were too busy naming and shaming me personally&comma; and Black women in general&comma; as undesirable golddiggers&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>The commentator unapologetically noted that&comma; while many may be used to their &&num;8220&semi;mediocrity&&num;8221&semi; being praised&comma; she personally doesn&&num;8217&semi;t support<em><strong> &&num;8220&semi;the bigotry of low expectations&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;strong><&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;Average is not and will never be good enough for me&period; And the gag is&comma; I don’t think it’s good enough for you&comma; either&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p><amp-instagram data-shortcode&equals;"CrycQmpu8zP" layout&equals;"responsive" width&equals;"600" height&equals;"600" data-captioned><&sol;amp-instagram><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Roommates&comma; what do you think of Eboni K&period; William&&num;8217&semi;s stance&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine; <div class&equals;"wpra-reactions-wrap wpra-plugin-container" style&equals;"justify-content&colon; center&semi;&semi;"> <div class&equals;"wpra-reactions-container" data-ver&equals;"1&period;3&period;10" data-post&lowbar;id&equals;"120979" data-show&lowbar;count&equals;"true" data-enable&lowbar;share&equals;"onclick" data-behavior&equals;"regular" data-animation&equals;"true" data-share&lowbar;url&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;eboni-k-williams-black-men-mediocrity&sol;" data-secure&equals;"a5508e3f4d"> <div class&equals;"wpra-call-to-action" style&equals;"color&colon; 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