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<p><a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/keke-palmer-responds-to-comments-comparing-her-career-to-zendayas-while-discussing-colorism/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Keke Palmer</a> is proof that listening to your elders is never a bad idea. The &#8216;Nope&#8217; actress recently revealed that actor Whoopi Goldberg was the source of some life-changing bedroom advice for the young star, as reported by <a href="https://toofab.com/2022/11/22/keke-palmer-sex-advice-whoopi-goldberg/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">TooFab</a>.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Palmer Revealed Goldberg&#8217;s Advice On A Recent Podcast Episode</h3>
<p>In the latest episode of Palmer&#8217;s podcast, &#8220;<a href="https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/479d20e6-2d8c-451a-b662-5bd4fa0178ab/episodes/f75c2086-74bf-4171-9473-7c64fd8f2201/baby-this-is-keke-palmer-has-porn-ruined-sex-with-dr-kate-balestrieri-4" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Baby, This Is Keke Palmer</a>,&#8221; the 29-year-old shared that one piece of advice from Goldberg completed altered her relationship with her own sexuality.</p>
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<p>According to Palmer, the 67-year-old Goldberg advised her to &#8220;start with pleasing yourself.&#8221; The conversation occurred during a taping of an episode of &#8216;The View.&#8217;</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I’ll never forget, I was on &#8216;The View&#8217; one time, and they were having a conversation about sex, a really great conversation, and Whoopi Goldberg said, &#8216;Please just start with pleasing yourself.&#8217; And I was like, &#8216;That rings true.&#8217;</p></blockquote>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Prior To Goldberg&#8217;s Advice, Keke Viewed Sex Differently</h2>
<p>During the episode, Palmer revealed that prior to receiving Goldberg&#8217;s advice, she always prioritized her partner&#8217;s sexual satisfaction over her own.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">Palmer Says Her View Of Sex Was Shaped By &#8220;Porn Simulation&#8221;</h3>
<p>Palmer also revealed that her earlier understanding of sex was largely influenced by &#8220;porn simulation.&#8221; She believed that sexual encounters should mimic those seen on video, but never truly &#8220;had a happy ending from it.&#8221; Instead, Palmer has realized that &#8220;more demure,&#8221; calmer, and more &#8220;emotional&#8221; sexual encounters satisfy her best.</p>
<blockquote><p>In my daily life, I&#8217;m very performative. I&#8217;m giving you everything I&#8217;ve got and I&#8217;m going in and what I did learn and realize as I matured was like, that&#8217;s absolutely not the kind of sex that I want to have.</p></blockquote>
<p>Aside from the sex talk, Palmer and Goldberg made headlines last year when Palmer joined &#8216;The View&#8217; and told Goldberg she was more than eager to join the cast of &#8216;Sister Act 3,&#8217; as reported by <a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/keke-palmer-shoots-her-shot-with-whoopi-goldberg-for-a-sister-act-3-role/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Shade Room</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>Now Whoopi, I gotta shoot my shot, like I did with Issa a little bit ago. I heard that Tyler Perry is doing ‘Sister Act 3’ and I just want you to know that I’m available for the job. Any job. I mean, you ain’t got to say nothing now, you know, I’ll send you an email or something. Just let me know if you need me.</p>
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