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Laurence Fishburne Reveals He Was ‘Abusive’ During First Marriage, Worked On Anger In Therapy

<p>Laurence Fishburne is getting candid about seeking <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;pete-davidson-is-reportedly-in-trauma-therapy-amid-kim-k-break-up-due-to-online-harassment-from-kanye-west&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">therapy<&sol;a> after getting physical with his first wife&comma; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;imdb&period;com&sol;name&sol;nm0608977&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Hajna O&period; Moss<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The conversation went down during the actor&&num;8217&semi;s appearance on an episode of the <i><a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;open&period;spotify&period;com&sol;episode&sol;6qTvhoqSNTNxIMPEqI5oKj" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Jemele Hill Is Unbothered<&sol;a> <&sol;i>podcast&comma; which aired on Monday&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><iframe title&equals;"Spotify Embed&colon; Ep 208&colon; LAURENCE FISHBURNE - Characters Are Individuals" style&equals;"border-radius&colon; 12px" width&equals;"100&percnt;" height&equals;"152" frameborder&equals;"0" allowfullscreen allow&equals;"autoplay&semi; clipboard-write&semi; encrypted-media&semi; fullscreen&semi; picture-in-picture" loading&equals;"lazy" src&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;open&period;spotify&period;com&sol;embed&sol;episode&sol;6qTvhoqSNTNxIMPEqI5oKj&quest;si&equals;aS7AoiwAT2ec4jr0pxW0hw&&num;038&semi;utm&lowbar;source&equals;oembed"><&sol;iframe><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>During the sit-down&comma; Laurence—who has starred in hit projects like <em>The Matrix<&sol;em>&comma; <em>Black-ish<&sol;em>&comma; and <em>Boyz n the Hood<&sol;em>—spoke on one of his other memorable roles&colon; Ike Turner in <em>What&&num;8217&semi;s Love Got To Do With It&quest;<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He was specifically asked about how he dealt with &&num;8220&semi;the fact that &lbrack;he was&rsqb; playing someone who is an abuser&comma;&&num;8221&semi; and Laurence went on to make quite the revelation&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">Laurence Was &&num;8220&semi;Physically Abusive&&num;8221&semi; In First Marriage&comma; Though A Black Therapist Helped Him Change<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Fishburne took the opportunity to share that he had some first-hand experience with being in a &&num;8220&semi;volatile&&num;8221&semi; relationship when he was younger&period; However&comma; a Black therapist helped him work through his demons&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;Having had some experience with that as a young man&comma; I did a lot of counseling&period; I found a great African American therapist who helped me deal with my anger issues&comma; because I had been physical with my first wife&period; I got married when I was 23 years old&semi; my first wife was 21&comma; and our relationship was very volatile&period; And I was physically abusive with my first wife&comma; to my regret&comma; and to my shame&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>He went on to detail more about finding his therapist&period; Additionally&comma; Laurence revealed he spent a few years actively working on himself through counseling&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;I had to go and look for some help&period; I had to find a therapist&comma; and I worked with this man for four or five years on all of those issues&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">His Therapy Came In Clutch During Ike Turner Role<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Coming back around to discuss his Ike Turner role&comma; Laurence said that his experience helped him play the part&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;I was very familiar with the territory and with the emotional landscape of what brings a person to that place where they feel the need to be abusive to their partner&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>However&comma; because of this all-too-real familiarity&comma; he was particularly conscientious to not let things get too toxic while on set&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p><strong>&&num;8220&semi;That&&num;8217&semi;s another reason why I said to the director&comma; &&num;8216&semi;We can only do this for a limited amount of time&period; This is not emotional territory that I want to be swimming in all day&period; I don&&num;8217&semi;t want Angela &lbrack;Bassett&rsqb; swimming in it all day&period; I don&&num;8217&semi;t want people on set having to deal with that kind of&comma; you know&comma; volatile&comma; emotional kind of stuff all day while we&&num;8217&semi;re trying to make a film&period;'&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;strong><&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">Laurence Learned How To Recognize The Signs<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Host Jemele Hill proceeded to inquire whether Laurence was able to identify the source of his past anger&comma; though the actor shared that he took a different approach&period; Instead of focusing on the source&comma; he wanted to work on identifying when he was approaching that headspace and implementing different ways to ground himself&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p><strong>&&num;8220&semi;I didn&&num;8217&semi;t really specifically work on the source of my anger&period; It was really about how to recognize it when it was coming up&comma; what my triggers were&comma; and what were the behaviors that I could use that would counter it&period; That would help me to move in a different direction&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;strong><&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p><amp-twitter data-tweetid&equals;"1594717410090786817" layout&equals;"responsive" width&equals;"600" height&equals;"480"><&sol;amp-twitter><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>What do you think about Laurence Fishburne&&num;8217&semi;s revelation&comma; and do you have a story about therapy coming in clutch&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine; <div class&equals;"wpra-reactions-wrap wpra-plugin-container" style&equals;"justify-content&colon; center&semi;&semi;"> <div class&equals;"wpra-reactions-container" data-ver&equals;"1&period;3&period;10" data-post&lowbar;id&equals;"102473" data-show&lowbar;count&equals;"true" data-enable&lowbar;share&equals;"onclick" data-behavior&equals;"regular" data-animation&equals;"true" data-share&lowbar;url&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;laurence-fishburne-reveals-he-was-during-first-marriage-worked-on-anger-in-therapy&sol;" data-secure&equals;"edb4cef2ba"> <div class&equals;"wpra-call-to-action" style&equals;"color&colon; 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