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<p>A married Texas megachurch pastor is stepping down from his post after an independent investigation uncovered &#8220;embarrassing&#8221; and &#8220;frequent&#8221; Instagram DMs with a woman who is not his wife.</p>
<p>On Sunday, Matt Chandler, lead pastor at The Village Church in Flower Mound, which sits about 30 miles northwest of Dallas, told his congregation that the leave of absence was prompted by a decision from church elders following an investigation into his social media usage, according to <a href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2022/08/30/megachurch-pastor-matt-chandler-instagram/7938054001/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>USA Today</strong></a>.</p>
<p>The news comes just weeks after the embattled church, which has a congregation size upwards of 15,000 attendees, settled a 2019 lawsuit where one of its former children&#8217;s ministers was accused of molesting an 11-year-old girl.</p>
<p>While the exact contents of Chandler&#8217;s DMs were not released, it was described as &#8220;coarse joking&#8221; in investigative reports and had many on social media speculating that it included adulterous overtones.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Megachurch Pastor Says He &#8220;Didn&#8217;t Think He Had Done Anything Wrong&#8221;</h3>
<p>Chandler explained in a statement posted to the church&#8217;s website that several months ago, a woman confronted him regarding &#8220;how he was (direct messaging) on Instagram with a friend of hers.&#8221;</p>
<p>The 48-year-old stated he &#8220;didn&#8217;t think (he) had done anything wrong&#8221; and that &#8220;a couple of things that she said were disorienting to me.&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p>“I didn’t think I had done anything wrong in that,” Chandler told the congregation. “My wife knew that, her husband knew that, and yet there were a couple of things that she said that were disorienting to me.”</p></blockquote>
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<p>Chandler reportedly told his wife Lauren as well as two church elders that same evening in an attempt to address the situation, according to a statement The Village Church wrote on its website Sunday.</p>
<p>The statement went on to say that the elders then hired an independent law firm to investigate Chandler&#8217;s social media messaging history, along with his emails and cellphone, six months after the issue was brought to their attention, the outlet reports.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Independent Law Firm Found Pastor&#8217;s DMs Violated Church&#8217;s Internal Social Media Policies</h3>
<p>Their findings ultimately led the elders to believe that Chandler had indeed violated the church&#8217;s internal social media use policies, and added that &#8220;more importantly&#8230; while the overarching pattern of his life has been &#8216;above reproach,&#8217; he failed to meet the (Bible&#8217;s) standards for elders of being &#8216;above reproach&#8217; in this instance.&#8221;</p>
<p>The investigators found that while &#8220;the messages were not romantic or sexual in nature,&#8221; the frequency and familiarity of the messages crossed a line,&#8221; and that Chandler &#8220;did not use language appropriate for a pastor.&#8221;</p>
<p>The messages were also described as “unguarded and unwise” and “revealed something unhealthy in me,” Chandler said.</p>
<blockquote><p>“While the messages were not romantic or sexual in nature, the frequency and familiarity of the messages crossed a line,” the statement continues. “They revealed that (he) did not use language appropriate for a pastor, and he did not model a behavior that we expect from him.”</p>
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<p>The church&#8217;s statement described Chandler&#8217;s leave of absence as &#8220;both disciplinary and developmental, which allows him to focus on growing greater awareness in this area,&#8221; according to USA Today.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">Pastor Feels &#8220;Really Embarrassed&#8221; And &#8220;Stupid&#8221; After Falling Short Of &#8220;Higher Standard&#8221;</h3>
<p>Chandler said he felt &#8220;really embarrassed&#8221; and &#8220;stupid&#8221; before adding he&#8217;s &#8220;held to a higher standard and fell short of that higher standard.&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p>“I’m just really embarrassed, feel stupid&#8230; I feel like I&#8217;m embarrassing my wife and kids,” Chandler told the congregation Sunday. “I’m held to a higher standard and fell short of that higher standard.”</p></blockquote>
<p>The disgraced pastor&#8217;s online church profile states he married his wife back in 1999. They have since had three children together.</p>
<p>He became pastor of the First Baptist Church of Highland Village, which is now called The Village Church, in 2002, USA Today reports.</p>
<p>Chandler was diagnosed with brain cancer in 2009, and was declared cancer-free a year later after undergoing brain surgery.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Village Church, Southern Baptist Convention Under Investigation For Allegations Of Sexual Abuse</h3>
<p>The pastor&#8217;s leave of absence marks the latest embarrassment for the Southern Baptist Convention (SBC) denomination, of which The Village Church is a member.</p>
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<p>The SBC, which is the second-largest religious group in the country, announced it was under federal investigation for sexual abuse earlier this month.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Individually and collectively each SBC entity is resolved to fully and completely cooperate with the investigation,&#8221; an SBC statement on August 12 read.</p></blockquote>
<p>The investigation comes on the heels of the release of an internal report that discovered SBC leaders had mishandled sexual abuse cases for 20 years, according to <a href="https://www.npr.org/2022/08/13/1117362904/southern-baptists-doj-investigation-sexual-abuse" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><strong>NPR</strong></a>.</p>
<p>On August 1, The Village Church in particular announced it had settled a 2019 lawsuit where one of its former children&#8217;s ministers was accused of molesting an 11-year-old girl, after a criminal case against the minister was dropped in 2020, Religion News Services reported.</p>
<p>The church &#8220;maintains and firmly believe that we committed no wrong,&#8221; it wrote after a lengthy legal investigation.</p>
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