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<p>Ne-Yo&#8217;s ex-fiancée, Monyetta Shaw-Carter, is opening up about why their three-year engagement and years-long relationship ultimately came to an end.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">Monyetta Shaw-Carter Addresses Ne-Yo&#8217;s Gender Identity Comments While Briefly Referencing Co-Parenting With Him &; His Other Children&#8217;s Mothers</h3>
<p>Ne-Yo&#8217;s ex-fiancée sat down for an exclusive interview on the &#8216;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mDGEcXngyzo" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Haus of Aaron</a>&#8216; podcast which was published Tuesday. At the beginning of the interview, she briefly explained her stance on Ne-Yo&#8217;s previous comments about gender identity and children.</p>
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<p>Shaw-Carter explained that they&#8217;re &#8220;really close,&#8221; and she believes his statements</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t speak for him but I do know we raised our kids to love <em>everyone</em>. And that&#8217;s who he is too — he really is. Honestly&#8230; I think what he meant was&#8230; we would like to be the ones to introduce it to our kids&#8230; Again, I can&#8217;t speak for him but that&#8217;s how I feel about it&#8230;&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>As the conversation continued, the reality star further indirectly explained her co-parenting relationship with Ne-Yo and the other mothers of his children. As <a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/sade-bagnerise-child-support-ne-yo-paternity-2-kids/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Shade Room</a> previously reported, the singer shares two children with Shaw-Carter, three children with his ex-wife Crystal Renay, and two children with Sade Bagnerise.</p>
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<blockquote><p>&#8220;I was like, listen now, I know they try to group us together child — everybody. I ain&#8217;t even met the new one and I ain&#8217;t talked to the other one,&#8221; Shaw-Carter explained, seemingly referring to Bagnerise and Renay. &#8220;But I&#8217;m like, yeah we co-parent but, uh, I co-parent with him, his mom, and his sister but it&#8217;s all love.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Ne-Yo&#8217;s Ex-Fiancée Explains Why Their Relationship Didn&#8217;t Work Out</h3>
<p>As the conversation continued, Shaw-Carter explained why their three-year engagement, and romance, ultimately came to an end.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;We cheated together —if that makes sense,&#8221; Shaw-Carter explained. &#8220;And then it just wasn&#8217;t enough. And then I was like, well, I didn&#8217;t sign up to do this <i>every day</i>&#8230;&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>The host then interrupted the reality star&#8217;s statement to ask what she meant by &#8220;we cheated.&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;We did things <em>together </em>— it&#8217;s not cheating if you&#8217;re involved with it,&#8221; she explained, then held up three fingers.</p></blockquote>
<p>She then continued by saying, &#8220;that&#8217;s where I was at that time.&#8221;</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;But it became a problem when you want that alot — like maybe, I&#8217;ll give you maybe twice a year or a few times but it was like too much and I was like if you want that, you don&#8217;t want me — it was making it seem like I was not enough&#8230;&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Shaw-Carter explained that she was &#8220;devasted.&#8221; Additionally, she said she &#8220;tried to keep it cute and spicy&#8221; for the singer. However, &#8220;it wasn&#8217;t enough&#8221; and &#8220;it is what it is.&#8221;</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">A Brief Look At Ne-Yo &; Monyetta&#8217;s Relationship</h3>
<p>According to <a href="https://pagesix.com/2023/08/31/ne-yos-ex-monyetta-shaw-claims-they-broke-up-over-threesomes/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Page Six,</a> Shaw-Carter and Ne-Yo were engaged between 2010-2013. The outlet reports that the pair split &#8220;two months ahead of their planned wedding.&#8221;</p>
<p>As <a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/atlanta-exes-the-highlights-from-episode-103/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Shade Room</a> previously reported, in 2014, Shaw-Carter publicly revealed that while she was with the singer, she agreed to undergo a surgery to prevent her from having additional children. Then, in 2016, Shaw-Carter published her memoir, &#8216;Bigger Than Me,&#8217; where she also shared her feelings on the singer&#8217;s desire for threesomes.</p>
<p>Additionally, she also shared her regret for complying, as per <a href="https://dev.theshaderoom.com/monyetta-shaw-says-regrets-threesomes-ex-ne-yo/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Shade Room</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;&#8230;I wasn’t a prude. I went hard for my relationship, it kinda happened and that’s what it was&#8230;</p>
<p>If it’s not what you want… at the time it was what I wanted, I’m not proud of it and I wouldn’t recommend it if it’s not part of your lifestyle,&#8221; she said at the time.</p></blockquote>
<p>In 2021, Shaw-Carter went on to marry Heath Carter. Today, she and Ne-Yo co-parent their 12-year-old daughter Madilyn and 11-year-old son Mason, as per <a href="https://pagesix.com/2023/08/31/ne-yos-ex-monyetta-shaw-claims-they-broke-up-over-threesomes/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Page Six</a>.</p>
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