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Trina Explains Waiting Four Months Before Confronting Partner About Infidelity: ‘Got To Play These Cards The Right Way’

<p>While most of the buzz surrounding the latest installment of <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;youtube&period;com&sol;watch&quest;v&equals;n0eL2CzEnhc" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener"><em>Caresha Please<&sol;em><&sol;a> is centered around Yung Miami&&num;8217&semi;s jaw-dropping revelation about <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;yung-miami-golden-showers-caresha-please-trina&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">golden showers<&sol;a>&comma; Trina spilled some tea about herself as well&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The new episode of the beloved podcast aired on Thursday evening&comma; and—at one point during their sit-down—Trina opened up to Yung Miami about a situation in a past relationship that involved infidelity&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">Trina Reminds Viewers They Are In Control&comma; Not The Cheater&colon; &&num;8216&semi;Only You Could Play You&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>Trina started off by pointing out that people have complete control over how they react to certain situations&period; As a result&comma; the &&num;8220&semi;B R Right&&num;8221&semi; rapper says&comma; &&num;8220&semi;Nobody could ever play you—only you could play you&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;You pick and choose what you want to deal with and how you want to deal with it&period; Nobody could ever play you—only you could play you&period; You never gonna get played&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>She went on to add&comma; &&num;8220&semi;How you handle your situation is how you handle your situation&&num;8230&semi;You do what you need to do for you&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>So&comma; while it&&num;8217&semi;s easy to focus on others&&num;8217&semi; actions&comma; Trina reminds us to remain grounded and do what&&num;8217&semi;s best for themselves&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><amp-instagram data-shortcode&equals;"Cnch-McvumN" layout&equals;"responsive" width&equals;"600" height&equals;"600" data-captioned><&sol;amp-instagram><&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">Trina Prepared For Four Months Before Cutting Ex Off Over Infidelity<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>After this little pep talk&comma; Trina shared a personal experience in which this outlook was put to the test&period; Specifically&comma; Trina revealed that&comma; after learning about her partner&&num;8217&semi;s infidelity&comma; she waited four months before calling him out&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;Now when I became in a relationship&comma; &lbrack;there&rsqb; was infidelity&period; This was &&num;8216&semi;I&&num;8217&semi;m living with you&comma; we about to get married&&num;8217&semi;—this is a whole different vibe&period; And he cheated&period; I found out&&num;8230&semi;I knew four months &lbrack;before confronting him&rsqb;&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>She went on to explain her rationale&comma; noting that—while she was ready to &&num;8220&semi;just wild out&comma;&&num;8221&semi; she had to reel it back for her own benefit&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;I had to think&comma; for real for real&period; In a situation like this&comma; what do you do&quest; &lbrack;Because&rsqb; if I tell you I found out what you did right now&comma; everything ends&period; Am I ready to end it&quest; I&&num;8217&semi;m not ready&&num;8230&semi;so I got to play these cards the right way&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>As a result&comma; Trina &&num;8220&semi;sat there&&num;8221&semi; for four months and just focused on &&num;8220&semi;trying to be the best person &lbrack;she&rsqb; could be&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><amp-instagram data-shortcode&equals;"CnniU0XLweF" layout&equals;"responsive" width&equals;"600" height&equals;"600" data-captioned><&sol;amp-instagram><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The rapper was sure to also point out that&comma; despite her &&num;8220&semi;persona of &&num;8216&semi;The Baddest B&ast;&ast;&ast;h&comma;&&num;8221&semi; she&&num;8217&semi;s just &&num;8220&semi;Katrina&&num;8221&semi; when it comes to her personal life and relationships&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>She summed up the situation by outlining the predicament at hand&colon; 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