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Will Smith On Marriage To Jada Pinkett-Smith: “I’m Gonna Do Me And You Do You,” As It Relates To Finding Their Own Happiness

<div dir&equals;"auto">&NewLine;<p>As Will Smith continues to promote his memoir&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Will&comma;&&num;8221&semi; the actor tells us more about his marriage that is seemingly nontraditional&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In an interview with Oprah Winfrey on Apple TV’s &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;The Oprah Conversation&comma;” Winfrey tried to get an understanding on if the two were in an open relationship&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The question about the duration of when the two separation came about&comma; as Winfrey tried to determine just how long they were separated&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Winfrey stated that people &&num;8220&semi;never actually understood&&num;8221&semi; the details of their separation and if it was &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;months or years&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Will replied and said&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Ya know&&num;8230&semi; It&&num;8217&semi;s really funny&&num;8230&semi; We didn&&num;8217&semi;t&&num;8230&semi; We never actually like officially separated&comma;&&num;8221&semi; seemingly referring to be legal definition of being separated&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He mentioned that he spent three years planning Jada’s 40th birthday party in 2011 and she didn’t enjoy it&period; This is when things came to head in their marriage<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He went in to talk about how not being able to make each other happy&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We realized that it was a fantasy illusion that we could make each other happy&comma;&&num;8221&semi; Will said&period; &&num;8220&semi;We agreed that she had to make herself happy and I had to make myself happy&period; Then we were going to present ourselves back to the relationship already happy — versus demanding that the other person fill our empty cup&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He said&comma; &&num;8220&semi;We just decided&comma; &&num;8216&semi;You have to figure out how to be happy&period;&&num;8221&semi; Though he admitted it was more &&num;8220&semi;contentious&&num;8221&semi; from his side&comma; telling Jada&colon; &&num;8220&semi;&&num;8216&semi;Go figure out if you can be happy and prove to me it&&num;8217&semi;s even possible&period;&&num;8217&semi; I&&num;8217&semi;m gonna do me and you do you&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As<a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;will-smith-shares-he-once-fell-in-love-with-a-co-star-during-first-marriage-i-found-myself-desperately-longing-to-see-her&sol;"> previously reported<&sol;a>&comma; Will shared he fell in love with a co-star&comma; when he was married to Sheree Zampino&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In an <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;people&period;com&sol;movies&sol;will-smith-says-he-fell-in-love-with-costar-stockard-channing-during-his-first-marriage&sol;">exclusive excerpt from his upcoming memoir<&sol;a>&comma; &OpenCurlyQuote;Will&comma;’ the actor shares that he once fell in love with his then co-star&comma; Stockard Channing&comma; of  &OpenCurlyQuote;Six Degrees of Separation’ while married to Sheree&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>He wrote&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Sheree and I were in the first few months of our marriage with a brand-new baby and for Sheree&comma; I can imagine that this experience was unsettling to say the least&period;” Will continued to explain that Sheree was living with the character he portrayed for the film&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;She’d married a guy named Will Smith&comma; and now she was living with a guy named Paul Poitier&period;” He then stated&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;And to make matters worse&comma; during shooting&comma; I fell in love with Stockard Channing&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Will also expressed that he wanted to see Channing after filming had wrapped&period;  &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Our marriage was off to a rocky start&period; I found myself desperately yearning to see and speak to Stockard&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Roomies&comma; what do you think&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&sol;div>&NewLine; <div class&equals;"wpra-reactions-wrap wpra-plugin-container" style&equals;"justify-content&colon; 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