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Woman Details Welcoming Twins After Meeting Sperm Donor On Facebook: ‘You Can’t Wait Forever’

<p>Sarah Mangat&comma; 34&comma; was on a mission to become a mother&comma; and a <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;facebook-live-murder-mississippi&sol;&quest;&lowbar;gl&equals;1&ast;1xpc1bd&ast;&lowbar;up&ast;MQ&period;&period;&ast;&lowbar;ga&ast;MTA5MTU5Mjg0Ni4xNjgzMDUyNDgw&ast;&lowbar;ga&lowbar;V2HX8YP3XL&ast;MTY4MzA2MTQyNS4yLjAuMTY4MzA2MTQyNS4wLjAuMA&period;&period;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Facebook<&sol;a> group called &&num;8220&semi;Canadian Sperm Donors&&num;8221&semi; helped make this dream a reality&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h5 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">RELATED&colon; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;report-black-sperm-donor-shortage-impacting-black-women-seeking-motherhood-vials-gone-within-minutes&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Report&colon; Black Sperm Donor Shortage Impacting Black Women Seeking Motherhood&comma; Vials Gone Within &&num;8216&semi;Minutes&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;a><&sol;h5>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">The Sperm Donor Supported Sarah Through Her High-Risk Pregnancy<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>According to <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;people&period;com&sol;human-interest&sol;single-mom-welcomes-twins-after-finding-sperm-donor-through-facebook-we-became-good-friends&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener"><em>PEOPLE<&sol;em><&sol;a>&comma; Mangat discovered the group in July 2020 when she began exploring options to start a family&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>While she initially wanted to use a sperm bank&comma; Mangat felt the process was &&num;8220&semi;too impersonal&period;&&num;8221&semi; She explained&comma; &&num;8220&semi;At the sperm bank&comma; you can only meet them when your child turns 18&period; But I wanted to know the person before that&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Eventually&comma; after undergoing genetic testing and STI screenings alongside a potential donor&comma; the pair met in person in February 2021&period; Fast forward to November&comma; and she discovered she was pregnant with twins&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>While she was &&num;8220&semi;delighted&comma;&&num;8221&semi; she added&comma; &&num;8220&semi;I nearly had a heart attack when they told me there &lbrack;were&rsqb; two&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The pregnancy didn&&num;8217&semi;t come without complications&comma; though&comma; as Mangat was at risk of going into premature labor or losing the pregnancy&period; However&comma; she had her sperm donor right by her side&period; Warmly&comma; she notes that they &&num;8220&semi;actually became quite good friends&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;We actually became quite good friends because he stuck with me through all my fertility issues&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<h5 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">RELATED&colon; <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;dev&period;theshaderoom&period;com&sol;sperm-donor-accused-of-fathering-550-kids&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Sperm Donor&comma; Accused Of Fathering 550 Children&comma; Is Being Sued To Cease Donations &amp&semi; Prevent &&num;8216&semi;Accidental Incest&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;a><&sol;h5>&NewLine;<h3 style&equals;"text-align&colon; center&semi;">The Mother Says It Was &&num;8216&semi;The Best Decision&&num;8217&semi;<&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>In April 2022&comma; the twins — Elora and Addison — were born at only 27 weeks&period; As a result of being born so prematurely&comma; the babies had health issues ranging from jaundice to brain bleeds and underdeveloped lungs&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Ultimately&comma; the twin sisters were in the NICU for over two months&comma; and Mangat recalled the period as &&num;8220&semi;difficult&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;Every day&comma; I left the hospital at 5 p&period;m&period; and go home to an empty house&period; That was a difficult part about doing it by myself&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>Despite hardships&comma; Mangat says she&&num;8217&semi;s extremely pleased with her decision&comma; and her daughters recently celebrated their first birthday&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;You can&&num;8217&semi;t wait forever for the right person to come into your life&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>In fact&comma; she says securing a sperm donor was &&num;8220&semi;the best decision&&num;8221&semi; she had ever made&period; She also encouraged others considering the option to &&num;8220&semi;do it&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<blockquote><p>&&num;8220&semi;If you&&num;8217&semi;re thinking about doing it alone&comma; I say do it&period; It&&num;8217&semi;s the best decision I ever made&period;&&num;8221&semi;<&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p><amp-youtube data-videoid&equals;"QYQqT&lowbar;c-tSU" layout&equals;"responsive" width&equals;"1000" height&equals;"563" dock&equals;"&num;dock-slot"><&sol;amp-youtube><&sol;p>&NewLine; <div class&equals;"wpra-reactions-wrap wpra-plugin-container" style&equals;"justify-content&colon; 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